So what’s the deal with guys wearing panties, anyway?
There seems to be some confusion.
There are lots of reasons why a man might find himself interested in ladies panties, but I want to talk about the reasons he may want to try them on..
Some men who wear underthings designed for women identify as cross dressers, and this identification often includes other items of women’s clothing worn along with those lacy briefs (thongs usually don’t work for guys, for obvious reasons). Cross dressing doesn’t necessarily indicate transgender or homosexual interest – it’s common for hetero-identified, ‘masculine’ men to cross dress.
Others like to wear panties but don’t really care for all the other accouterments of feminine dress (okay, maybe the occasional pair of nude thigh-high stockings..) – I fondly call these fellas ‘panty boys’. They’re just into the feel and texture and fit of the garment, and there’s still something slightly naughty about wearing them.
There’s a common misconception that a man in panties is something less than attractive…I cannot imagine why. Just look at the above screengrab – taken from a recent youtube video showing guys trying on panties for the first time – those perky, satin-covered bums look pretty cute to me.
Several of my male playmates choose to wear panties for their spankings, and many more have been ‘sentenced’ to the task. I am always tickled under any circumstance by which I can see one of my Tough Guys tucked into one of Victoria’s better-kept secrets.
Guys, where are you on this? (Obviously, you can comment anonymously) Are you into the occasional full-bottom satin brief? If so, care to explain it to those who may not understand?….
And ladies, what about you? Does the idea of your man/partner/spankee in panties make you giggle, or cringe? Why?
– Dana
I like t wear sheer nylon panties when I’m being spanked. On rare occasions I have worn stockings garter belt and bra while being spanked. Believe it or not I am a masculine male! The lingerie feels good and like you said, I like the feel of the feminine lingerie. I don’t consider myself a cross dresser. I have fantasized about being a female spanked by my lesbian lover while being spanked.
All of my fantasies relate to spanking which trumps everything else.
James
James,
I think that many men, like you, simply enjoy the luxurious feeling of feminine fabrics….and that naughty part.~~
Myself i have a thing for silky things on a lady when i play either way( slip,panties etc) ,i just love the feel and i have a few lady tops who i’ve discussed with are ok with me wearing silky panties( i’ve never done it before ) i love the feel of silk and would like to wear them when being spanked .Being over a ladies lap in silky panties while her hand has fun with my bum for most of the spanking then pulling them down and continue on the bare .I’m not a cross dresser ,i love silk ,i’m also not a hunk .
Silverfol124,
The silkiness of the underthings seems to drive most of my playmate’s interest – you guys simply don’t get that in your tighty whities. Ha~
I think some time ago i mentioned to you about a roleplay with you in silk and me being caught doing something naughty and then you scolding and i go over your silky lap ,of course we could add me being made to wear silky panties and being spanked in them and then you could either pull them down or do a wedgie and keep spanking ,that would be a fun scene
Silverfox,
When are wedgies NOT fun scenes? ~~
No.
For others it maybe fine but being an old fashioned male panties are for the ladies. Just how I see it for others fine whatever floats your boat but panties are for the ladies, to be taken down by the men to spank her lovely bare bottom and hang at her ankles like a flag of surrender.
We all have our kinks and I respect those of others and have transgendered friends but I am perhaps of an older mindset.
My girl likes a dominant male and I enjoy a submissive female, so she wears the panties until I take them down.
Treat her like a lady, until you have to spank her like a lil girl. – My Motto
Talon,
This is definitely a case of YKINMKBTO (Your kink is not my kink, but that’s okay). Thank goodness we’re all open-minded enough to not judge others for their enjoyment…or them ours.
I do not think there is a set of panties that could survive being on TheVBB, yep I’m one of those tough guys that’s too tough for panties. Plus, my bum is much cuter in the nude, it would be a shame to cover it up. There is something to be said about going commando, the WW likes to go straight to the naked bum when spanking me.
Just for that, mr Tough Guy, I’ll have a pair of rumba panties just for you, next time.
xoxx
HA HA, that will teach him, huh, Dana?
I think they look nice.
Agreed, Laurel!
I find that being told to wear panties prior to the upcoming spanking puts me in a more submissive mood and heightens the anticipation.
I find, similarly, that some of my playmates ‘enjoy’ a bit of forced panty-wearing from time to time, Dan.
My partner has always had a fetish for wearing panties, it makes him feel more submissive and seeing how it changes him to slip them on, only fuels me to be more playful with him. Peeling down those panties to apply some blush to his pale cheeks is as fun for me as it is for him.
Hear hear, anonymous! I agree 100%.
Since I’m submitting this while in leopard print bikini nylon panties and wearing a lacy camisole, yes, I’m pretty much a panty boy who enjoys the comfort and feel of soft underthings and, as Dana notes, that ain’t something you get in whitie tighties! I’ve no interest in sex with other guys, but do enjoy seeing pictures of other guys in their knickers and have given a couple of “fashion shows” on line, but that’s as far as it goes. When some guy says “let’s get together in person,” I say “thanks, but no thanks.”
No interest in wearing a dress, a top with buttons on the other side, or doing my nails.
I do enjoy a lady who understands a man in panties…gentle teasing, a little embarrassment, a comment about my panty selection goes a long way. Until, of course, those panties are on the floor, my bottom is red,and my legs are kicking!
Thanks, Dana, for your questions. I hope, someday, you’ll say “cute panties, Mark…now, let’s get them down.” :)
Mark,
I’m just as likely to say, “These panties are so pretty that, instead of taking them down, I’m just going to pull them wa-aay up into your crack instead. Now those cute little cheeks are bared AND I can still see the panties.”
*gulp* Yes, ma’am!
I think a lot of us were brought up in an era where it was a given that men wouldn’t wear womens panties. And it was so obvious that no one would have dreamed of needing to say it out loud, explicity: you shouldn’t wear womens panties. It would be on the unthinkable extreme of THINGS MEN DON’T DO, with things like crying, thinking too much, asking for directions :), being on the bottom, listening to others in business meetings, etc.
When those “rules” get constantly reinforced for a long time, then it takes a lot of awareness and deliberate intent to change attitudes and behavior, and I think some of those never will change for a set of fellows. Some of the most courageous guys I know seem to be able to give the middle finger to conventions and I respect that in them.
Personally, I’d enjoy turning down those panties on a female before I started spanking her bare bottom, but I also think they look good on the guys (probably because they have invitingly spankable bottoms as well). IMO,there’s a struggle for acceptance among male F/M players to begin with, I think partly because the same old school attitudes of the past have been ingrained in many females as well. So, wearing panties while receiving a spanking from a woman, is one more step beyond…
The ideal spanking relationship for me would be a female spanking her male, but also the reverse (in roughly equal percentages). I know I’d like the feel of my hand slapping down on a female’s arched bottom while she was wearing clean, tighty-whities (boy briefs, whatever) and perhaps I’d be able to stretch old school enough for the opposite. But there’d have to be trust, trust, trust.
BT,
I LOVE that you bring up the subject of girls wearing BOYS undies, which is a particular favorite of mine. Not ‘boy cut’, but actual men’s boxer briefs (with the waistband rolled wa-aay down) or boxers….wowza! It’s almost a shame to pull them down, isn’t it?
What were we talking about? I’m now totally distracted by the girls-in-boxer-briefs image…
Ok my two cents. I have been made to wear them all day, sometimes before a spanking others just because. I had to go out and buy my own and I have been kneeling on the floor wearing them when She walks in the room. Generally don’t get spanked much with them on. She likes to see her marks. One time during punishment She lubed me up with bengay and then put the panties on so it would not get all over everything. Tonight I was ordered to shove a pair in my mouth and get myself off. What turns me on? Her telling me I have to do it, the thought of getting caught, the fact that the silky fabric rubs against you and drives you insane. All of those and probably more!!!
On a side note I dressed in drag for a cancer awareness event because my daughter is heavily active in the cause. Nails, hair, dress the whole works, Me and 10 other fathers and husbands. As we were out raising money a guy tells his girlfriend “I would never do that” to which I responded ” You would be surprised at what you would do for your children”
Rokk,
Thank you for your comment and ‘two cents’. However, further comments containing phrases like “get myself off” will be deleted…and your mouth washed out with soap.
Sorry Dana, just relating what happened. Will just keep to the spanking related stuff in future posts.
I had never paid much attention to undies before I met Mama Ma’am. What I did know was that men were often forced to wear them as preludes to spankings or in the corner afterwards (and, in cheesy vids, often spanked for wearing them). About one year into our relationship, I was presented with some “spanking undies.” They weren’t and were women’s underwear (as they were designed to fit men). When I saw how excited Mama was by the site of them, I started a collection of what we like to call “spanking attire. They’re a great way (if laid out) to announce that a spanking is in the mail, and a great way to ask for a spanking!
Hello ma’am,
I for one “hate” wearing women’s panties. Granted, the sensation of that thin, silky material rubbing ever so gently across that very sensitive area is arousing but for a masculine man’s man, the prospect of being seen in them outweighs the sensual feeling they produce! It’s bad enough that I am taken across her knee and soundly spanked like an adolecsent boy….I find that as a result I try harder to project a macho image so that others won’t suspect that embarrassing truth! In my case, I am “forced” to wear them as an added humiliation which I must admit is very effective!
Respectfully,
wdspoone