The VBB and The Wonderful Wife’s One Year Anniversary With Ms. Dana Kane.
The elevator doors opened and we hesitantly step into the small and somewhat scary looking elevator. As the elevator slowly made its way to the third floor we left behind the lobby of the building that sat on 32nd Ave in New York City. It stopped at the third floor for what seemed like an eternity before the doors finally opened. I stood behind my wife trying to hide behind her even though I am 6’4 and she is only 5’4. As the doors opened I saw the petite figure of Ms. Dana Kane standing in front of the elevator doors. She greeted us with a huge smile and called us by name. As we exited the elevator she gave my wife a big hug, I stepped back a bit nervously looking around the reception area and the long hall way which was lined with glass cases filled with paddles, whips, canes and other implements. She looked at me and waved me over and said, “Come over here and give me a hug.” That day was intended to be the one and only session I was going to have with her. However, at the end of the session and as I was preparing to leave, Dana said she would love to one day have a session with my wife and I.
Thus started a relationship with Dana that has progressed from the initial session to one of regular play partner, disciplinarian, confidant, mentor and a great friendship. We are now approaching a year since the first session I had with Ms. Kane. During the time we moved from New Jersey to Texas and was unsure if we would see Dana again. Not long after we arrived in Texas she made her first of many visit to her home state where we were once again reunited. During this past year our relationship has grown. The most significant event of our relationship was when I was told by my wife to contact Ms. Kane and request a punishment session from her to deal with some misbehavior I engaged in soon after arriving in Texas. The session, which was held in Austin, defined a whole new level of our relationship. She told me that day that I was now accountable to her along with my wife. That day she became my disciplinarian, not as a role-play character but as my actual disciplinarian. I am accountable to her on a monthly basis. When necessary she will assign me consequence for my actions and either have me preform the tasks or have my wife carry out some form of corporal punishment.
Over the past year we have had eight sessions with Dana, two serious punishment sessions and six play sessions to include some individual accountability time between Dana and myself. Along the way we have had a great time as we played. To date she has broken 15 implements on me to include a 1 and a 1/4 inch solid wooden heart shaped paddle. We have engaged in battles of wills, I have sent her a number of bratty emails, which she responded to in writing and with a good spanking from time to time. Both my wife and I have discovered the joys of twitter, which has also gotten me in trouble with her a few times already. We have shot a few videos together, I have written short stories, submitted some journal entries I kept as I awaited a punishment session with Ms. Kane. We have taken a number of pictures during our playtime all of which Dana has graciously allowed to be published on her blog site. Along the way we have made new friends, Erica Scott, Angel, Bobbie Jo, Spanked Cali and the folks at Spanking Court. We exchanged comments with those who have left comments on Dana’s blog and found some wonder spanking blogs as a result of her link.
Dana lovingly refers to my wife as the Wonderful Wife, which truly describes her. She refers to me as The Very Bad Boy or The VBB. Which she claims refers to my occasional naughty behavior and to my brattiness. Although, I think it should be changed to The Very Best Boy, but she shot that suggestion down and told me she is the only one who can change my name. We look forward to another great year with Ms. Dana Kane, this month I am taking both my Wife and Dana to Spanking Court so they can answer for a number of charges I have brought against them. It should be a fun and entertaining series. We are also planning on a very special series of spanking videos later this year, which I believe everyone will find quite enjoyable. So keep an eye out later this year for more details.
Thank you Ms. Dana for all the spankings, paddlings, whippings and strappings but not so much for the canings. Thank you for the fun playtimes, the serious punishment sessions and for the accountability time. Thank you for mentoring the Wonderful Wife and showing her how to be a true HoH. Thank you for your patience and for putting up with my bratty comments, emails and tweets. It’s all done in fun and always with respect for you and my wife. We look forward to an even greater second year as I find myself Cruisin’ for a Bruisin.
The VBB and The Wonderful Wife
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I can attest to the open minded and wonderful person Ms. Kane is. As someone who had almost given-up on my dreams and fantasies, I can write to you now; that finding Ms. Kane has changed my life for the best. May both you and I have many more years with this wonderful woman.
paul p
A great post – thanks VBB. Despite how some people ‘outside’ regard our scene, what you write is testament to the care, understanding and deep friendships formed between people of like mind, plus great fun along the way. I’m sure your 2nd year will be even better than the first. My best regards to you, your WW, and of course the wonderful Dana.
UKL
I’ve been so bad and deserve and hard spanking.
belle
This was really interesting and encouraging to read. I have had a quite a journey with my need for female discipline – both in an out of relationship – and relate to this situation. I recently started a new blog about my journey, and have written a post about your letter at http://anundisciplinedman.blogspot.co.uk/2012/05/why-would-man-want-discipline-from.html that I hope sheds some insight into the arrangement you have and why I think it works. Btw, I am married, and if you want to know more about our marriage, we have a joint blog at http://the-good-dd-life.blogspot.co.uk/