I think our first attempt at VQA did well, don’t you?
It went pretty darn long, as there were dozens of questions, and because I talked a lot (imagine that) – but I figure it’s up to you all to decide whether it’s worth doing again.
If you’ve still questions left over, or have come up with something else, ask your questions via the comment function below (please don’t email individual questions; it’s difficult to run them down in several places). And please remember, this isn’t an AMA – you cannot Ask Me Anything – but you’re welcome to ask questions about spanking, discipline, video, and stuff of general interest.
I’ll do my best to keep this one under half an hour, but no promises.
Have you ever realized you dislike a play partner? If so would you still session with them in the future or tell them to seek elsewhere?
When you spank multiple partners on the same day how do you keep up your energy for each scenario?
Do you get nervous or anxious before giving your first spanking to a new playmate?
Do you find your partner gets overly needy or pushes their needs to much!
So it can become taxing at times?
Yes…she gets nervous every time she has to spank me. Bless her heart!
One last question…
You are a VERY popular top for MANY reasons…
Does it flatter, annoy, bother, amuse or elicit ANY other reaction when you’re compared to other well known tops?
When you are spanking someone in a private session, you remove their clothing except for their underwear (and bra in some cases) and eventually remove their underwear as the spanking progresses. How come in your videos you do things differently? To save time? Switch things up? Just curious.
Are there OTK position that hurt more than others? Ie: OTK stretched across the bed or OTK while you are sitting in a chair? What do you prefer? And how do you decide? Personally, OTK while you are sitting in a chair hurts worse but I probably shouldn’t be telling you that!
From my experience and from what I have read and witnessed, spankings are often administered in the bathroom. And/or at least one is “threatened” to be taken to the bathroom and spanked. Do you often, if ever, spank in the bathroom? If not, is it b/c bathroom space is typically limited etc?
Do you ever want to beat harder and longer, but don’t do it because you think the sub has had enough?
Last time I was spanked with a paddle a thin layer of skin was removed from my bottom and there was septum coming out of it. My disciplinarian thought I deserved more, put some oil on my bottom and continued the spanking.
I have a hell of a job to restore the skin before I get my next spanking 2 weeks after the spanking that broke my skin. I’m a bit nervous about it, because I’m afraid that if the skin breaks again and again and again the skin will remain fragile. I will discuss this with him next time and I think he will find a solution for it (hope not to beat my legs instead of my bottom!).
Do you break the skin of your subs sometimes with a paddle and do you continue beating it when it is open? And are you careful if it is not completely healed from a previous spanking or don’t you think that is necessary?
Hi Dana. Do you have any first-time play partners that beforehand were cocky or bratty at a distance (in online media, for instance) but that had an “uh-oh” moment when you started spanking? Hypothetically, would you then have a deep, wicked satisfaction on the inside or the compassion of say a teacher providing an important lesson? :)
What goes through your mind when playmates, new or experienced, confess their misdeeds to you? What do you think about when you are spanking them for discipline reasons?
What is your favorite type of bratty behavior among your playmates? And what is your least liked?
Thanks everyone for participating again, and I’ll leave the comments section open for a couple weeks more before posting the video.
P.S. For those of you who’ve asked weird/awkward/off-topic questions, your comments have been removed. Try again when you’re paying attention. Thanks.
I’ve had many, many professional spanking sessions. I always book a half-hour session and that’s plenty of spanking for me. My “scene” is what might really occur between a mother and son, or a boss and employee, or teacher and student – a quick verbal summary of why I’m being spanked, followed by a pretty steady 15 to 20 minutes of spanking, then maybe a hug, and it’s over. I don’t need to experience every implement and every position, I can be thoroughly spanked by someone with your skill and experience in a fairly short time and I don’t really get any value over prolonging it.
Yes, I realize that individuals are all different.
So here’s my question. Your minimum session is 1 hour. How do you make it last an hour? What else do you do in the course of a session besides spank? I’m too much of a cheapskate to pay to stand in a corner and when it’s a good hard spanking, my butt won’t last an hour.
What are the best products for cleaning implements? Different ones for leather vs wood?
What is your description of subspace?
Is it something that only light spankings can induce? Only for submissive spankees to experience?
I LOVE hard long lasting spankings with varying intensities mixed in. Every time I read or hear of a person experiencing “sub space” my mind instantly goes to… WTF? I actually have no interest in attaining it. But it’s more of an annoyed curiosity because my spankings rarely hurt LESS the longer they occur during a given spanking. I just fail to see how a spanking’s soreness could decrease or even get numb unless it was an implement free session.
If the term implies a true physical, emotional and trusting bond between myself and my top, then YES I experience that with you every time.
When you see a client do you agree to use one of their implements or do you just like to use your own because you feel comfortable with them?
I’ve noticed on some tumbler spanking sites there are pictures of you and screen grabs from your videos. Do people ask for your permission to post these pictures or are they just taken without permission. Would you like to be informed which sites are publishing your photos?
So I lied, before…
This question pertains to how you select performers for your videos. How do you determine who is best suited for filming hard core disciplinary scenes vs erotic ones or ones combining both discipline and humorous exchanges? Are some people suited for all of those roles or best performing in a “niche scenario?”