The next installment of The Very Bad Boy’s prepunishment journal has arrived, and I was delighted to see that his Wonderful Wife has been so considerate as to add her thoughts about his current ‘situation’ and the steps necessary to address and correct the unacceptable behavior.
I am always grateful to be able to share another woman’s perspective, thoughts, and experiences within the spanking lifestyle – and could not be happier that the Wonderful Wife is such a determined and understanding partner and disciplinarian to her husband. Her patient yet unbending hand will likely see them through many more years of DD bliss.
– Dana
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Thoughts from The Wife:
I am surprised the VBB did not think I was going to take his sneaky behavior seriously. We have discussed in length his sneaky behavior, how it affects our marriage and our closeness. When you live in a DD relationship, you know when your partner has broken a rule because of the way they act. Once the VBB has done something he knows will displease me, he is full of guilt, which causes him to pull away emotionally from me. Of course, I would do anything in my power to enhance our relationship. Therefore, it goes without saying that I will be following through with this discipline session. His true remorse that I know he feels will not sway Dana nor me from using our time together to give him a true disciplinary session. He may try to sway me in not following through; thinking his pre-punishments he receives will make everything all right. When I think of what is at stake, I will definitely not be swayed. This is why he is so apprehensive and rightfully so; he knows he will be appropriately punished for his misdeeds.
The VBB’s Journal Entry:
Watching the videos from our previous sessions with Ms. Kane made me stop and think about our upcoming session. The advantage of meeting with Ms. Kane for the very first time was she was not fully aware of my tolerance level. Nor did she know which implements and techniques were the most effective. However, after three sessions, Ms. Kane is now fully aware of my tolerance level and she knows without a doubt which implements and techniques are most effective for me. The videos reminded me that Ms. Kane and my wife clearly know and understand my tolerance level. They also know which implements I despise the most. I am afraid despite my many subtle and obvious remarks on how much I hate the cane; the cane will still play a prominent role in our session. Of course, my wife will also bring with her the knowledge of the little tricks I use to try to get her to stop or shorten a spanking. Consequently, I think I will find myself in a vulnerable position. I cannot count on either of them to go light on me, as they both know how much I can actually take. They both know while I can tolerate almost any single or short serious of smacks, I cannot endure quick continuous whacks to the same area. Because this is a serious disciplinary session, I cannot count on my little survival skills nor my sense of humor to try to shorten the spanking. I am apprehensive that I will be at the complete mercy of these two dominate women. Who have made it very clear their goal is to break me of my sneaky and dishonest behavior. Watching these videos put me in a slight funk, for now I really do not want to go through this experience. Watching the videos again did nothing to set me at ease but did just the opposite, they only exacerbated my anxiety about our upcoming visit.
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Sounds like the VBB is going to have a very sore hiney. I keep wondering what his transgression actually was. I’m thinking he got caught masturbating without permission. That would qualify as sneaky with my wife for sure!
Thanks for the great blog Dana. You are a fantastic lady indeed. JayJay
Well Jay Jay it was a little more serious than that. The VVB has a tendency, which he has not done since his last appointment with Dana, to go places he is not allowed to go without me being present or without my permission. Once I allow this sort of behavior to go unchecked it leads to more sneaky and dishonest behavior. I know that after this session it will be an even a longer time before he thinks of going anywhere without my permission again. If your wife wants help in dealing with your “sneaky behavior” I am sure Dana will be happy to oblige.
JayJay,
I couldn’t have said it better than the Wonderful Wife…
– Dana