..when you see images or videos of me being spanked – which you have recently, and will again.
As many of my friends and playmates know, it’s been years since I’ve been spanked with any regularity. I’ve always explained it as ‘my top side got too big to leave room for the bottom’ after years of giving spankings, and I still believe that to be true…a person can become so completely immersed in the enjoyment of an activity – to the exclusion of many others – as to forget how much fun other things can be. Recently, though, after a number of big changes (some great and some decidedly not, as is life), I find myself again interested in mingling with the other end of the paddle, so to speak.
While I still won’t be receiving any Discipline or Punishment spankings, as my own mind doesn’t quite work that way, there has been a creeping desire for just-for-the-hell-of-it play lately, and I’m thoroughly enjoying it.
As I’ve said before, many times, that I think it’s a shame that some folks within our spanko community feel the need to keep their bottom-side personalities hidden, it’d be hypocritical of me to pretend that I’m not being spanked, occasionally, by my partner (and only my partner, don’t get ahead of yourself there, mister).
So I’ll be sharing some of those experiences here, in word, photo, and video. If you’re queasy about watching/reading/knowing that Ms. Dana Kane gets spanked sometimes, please feel free to avert your eyes. And feel equally free to keep any negative commentary to yourself, as (with much love) I could not care less whether or not you approve.
– Dana
Personally I think it’s great…AND highly entertaining that you’re allowing yourself to get your butt blasted on camera again. I haven’t seen any recent ones since I have to renew my membership. But knowing how much I love to get spanked by the right partner (s) it’s very easy to understand why you like to change sides of the paddle. :)
I know you’re as sweet and innocent as myself so I find it very hard to comprehend WHY you’d ever require a punishment/disciplinary spanking either! LOL
I for one think that you are lovey no matter which set of cheeks are blushing, oh wait, we are talking about you experiencing the bottom side once in a while…well there is a school of thought among spankos that believes that some of the best tops in this kinky game are those who know first hand how it feels at the bottom end….And I can vouch personally that some of the finest tops I have encountered are these types..
Sounds good to me Ms. Kane. That means by the time I make it to LV you’ll feel sympathy and go easy right? ;)
I think it’s admirable that you are open and honest with being yourself. That’s how we should all be and if people don’t like that well too bad! :)
What Phil said!
You’re decidedly your own unique person :)
‘sides, it’s not like there’s a long list of people who would like to see you with a hot, squirmy little bottom…snort
Ditto what BT said about many of wanting to see that (presumably) pretty posterior get a taste of what its owner has been dishing out with WAY too much enthusiasm!
It’s great that you are having play time and having some fun. It’s fun for we to watch and wish it was me. Just enjoy.
I would never have a problem with what your doing ,I think its great . I started as a bottom and then about 25 yrs ago found out I enjoyed giving them more and these days my bottom side gets little attention ( wish it was more ) .I will always have my bottom side and it will come out when it wants to .I can switch at anytime and I know many cant but when I’m receiving I always play that way and would never ask a lady to switch unless she asked me .I have seen you on the receiving end a few times recently and back yrs ago when you 1st started ( I wont name the site) .the important thing is to do what feels right for you .To me you will always be a lady I want to spend time over her knee
I think sometimes its good for the Top to release some pent up need and you spend so much time filling the needs of all us need little Naughty Bottom!
and speaking of “knickers in a knot” is this bit of advice recently posted on Fetlife:
“God grant me a vacation to make bearable what I can’t change. A friend to make it funny and the wisdom to never get my knickers in a knot because it solves nothing and makes me walk funny.”
Thanks so much, everyone.
You’re all the most open-minded and accepting group of weirdos I could possibly have the luck to ‘hang out with’, and I’m grateful for YOUR openness and sharing. It’s only fair that I do the same, right?
Big Hugs all ’round!
If I get my Knickers in a Knot are they KNAUGHTY Knickers and if so will you need to spank them the next time I see you?
I don’t see why people would get upset if you want to put any type of photos, videos, or pictures you see fit on your own blog. It is your space, and everyone else is free not to look if they don’t like something. Besides, who would actually be mental enough to say something to you about what you post?
I love that you’re showing that interesting side of you (couldn’t resist). Almost all disciplinarians also have an interest in being a recipient – for many, it was what got them into exploring spanking in whatever capacity they do in the first place.
I think I’m personally a far better disciplinarian because I have my submissive side and understand the mindset, the nature of the implements, the wants and needs of recipients (and the difficulties and fears). So consider exposing your reddening fanny to us to be important research and repeat it as often as necessary :)
As a personal preference, I’d prefer if the scenes in which you were spanked didn’t also have F/M content. I obviously like F/M scenes with you administering a walloping, but prefer them segregated. That’s obviously a personal quirk though, and I presume part of the fun of these scenes for you is the interaction of switching with your partner, so carry on and have a jolly time, lady! We’ll be watching.
Some people have a site page for their top activities and a separate page with a quite different name for when they take on the role of bottom. I’ve even read the comment from a well-known top (that is, ANOTHER well-known top) that it’s nice just to relax and let someone else do the work, by which she meant a Certain Someone Else. I’m sitting at my desk, looking at my computer, and no one, not you or any other person, is forcing me to read your blog or look at your videos. If I don’t like them, then . . . you know.
I think this is not only great but I feel in general all women would benefit from regular spankings! So certainly go ” Bottoms Up ” I wish you well in this and of course a sore seat to enjoy or help you learn a lesson!
Talon,
I think you meant to type, “…all PEOPLE would benefit from regular spankings.”
Don’t worry, I’ve clarified your point.