Q. Do you spank at home, in a hotel, or dungeon?
A. In Los Angeles, I take sessions at a private, fully-equipped dungeon-type playspace. I do NOT do home or outcall sessions. When traveling, I always attempt to find a private yet professional space in which to hold sessions. While dungeon-type playspaces are not typically outfitted with a very domestic feel, I prefer the discretion and privacy afforded there, which cannot always be duplicated in a hotel suite.
A. I do offer a variety of BDSM play sessions, yes. I built the danakane.blogspot.com site so that my main interest and fetish – spanking – would have a place to stand apart from other types of D/s play. I understand that most spankos have little to no interest in ‘whips and chains’ and have kept that in mind with the strictly spanking site(blog) and it’s content.
I do not employ humiliation tactics, hoods, or full-body leather in domestic scenes…relax.
A. No. I have a bunch of very pretty tattoos – most of which I keep covered during domestic and spanking scenes.
A. No.
A. I love spanking, I am a total ham, and I believe that sharing my interests with fellow spankos is good for my professional reputation and overall relationship with clients and fans.
A. Probably, yes, but will still give away free photos and videos. I’ve no intention of charging for every little bit of content that I produce, now or in the future.
A. I am always happy to discuss your participation in video production. Email me for details.
A. Absolutely. I require that all prospective new playmates send a respectful and detailed introductory email, outlining interests, experience, limits, etc. Once a common rapport has been established and a tentative day/time has been set for our meeting we will confirm via telephone and you will have the opportunity to share any information – and ask any other questions – you feel necessary.
A. I was not spanked much as a child. By the time I was eight or nine years old, my parents realized that spanking just was not very affective with this headstrong little girl. The only way to get my attention at that age was to force me to stay in my room, thereby stopping me from running all over the neighborhood with my best friend and driving all the old neighbors crazy.
Spanking began for me in an adult, female-led domestic discipline relationship…which happened completely by accident. What began as a sort of fun, sexy joke became a real and integral part of a very successful and long-term relationship. It was years before anyone outside the relationship had the opportunity to judge my spanker ‘skills’.
In the ensuing years, I have not intentionally sought out domestic discipline relationships, but they have managed to find me again and again. It is a comfortable, natural, happy place for me to function from – and it turns out that sharing my love of spanking with others is a comfortable, natural, happy place as well.
I look forward to sharing this love until I cannot swing my arm anymore…thank you for allowing me that opportunity. Until we meet –
-Dana Kane
DanaKaneSpanks@gmail.com
Are your clients only men?
Anonymous,
While most of my clientele are male, I am always tickled to have the rare opportunity to spank ladies as well.
– Dana
Looking for advice… I’ve been in the “scene” for a few years, and I ‘identify’ as a submissive. Do you think formal training or any training is important? I’m naturally respectful, hard working,and such but would it benefit me/ any future DD relationships to have submissive training?
Olivia,
I do not believe that submissive training and domestic discipline relationships go hand in hand. Not all spanking bottoms are what one would classify as submissive…many of the women identify as ‘alpha female bottoms’, in fact. Domestic discipline relationships are as different and varied as any other, and it is my belief that we enter into them as equals. Good luck.
-Dana
Wow, what a governess, hope you visit Amsterdam one day, have a nice day, onno
I really appreciate your reply, thank you. =)
olivia
onno,
Thank you. I am hoping to visit Europe late summer.
-Dana
So it isn’t weird if a female wants to get spanked?