Readers,
I want to give you a short background on this video:
It’s real. Cheekie is real. The story we tell is real, and so is the trouble she could be in right now, had I not given her the opportunity to redeem herself and she not taken it.
Cheekie agreed to receive her punishment on video, and to admit to her wrongdoing. Not everyone would be as brave (or silly?), but I’m giving her credit for taking responsibility..and a very hard spanking.
The two of us had a VERY long talk, and I’ve edited it down to what I hope is a manageable size without taking out any of the spanking or pertinent details (it’s still long, at nearly 18minutes). She had some very misinformed ideas about the spanking video business – and about the business of content sharing, and thoughtlessly went about her illegal activities for quite some time before I caught her in the act.
I gave Cheekie no other option to deal with this situation – I told her that the ONLY way to redeem herself with me was to put her butt on a plane to Las Vegas and accept whatever I had to offer. I didn’t threaten her with legal action or ‘outing’, as she’d by then figured out for herself how easily she could’ve ended up in a much worse situation. She immediately agreed (somewhat to my surprise, until I realized that this sweet girl is still too young and inexperienced to realize exactly the gravity of the situation), and by the time we met, we’d agreed that if she was willing to accept the punishment (and lots and lots of verbal shaming from me, of course), that I’d be willing to forgive her past actions.
I’m still not certain whether Cheekie has learned the FULL lesson here, which is – essentially – that rote ‘do unto others’ thing that we’ve always known to be the best policy. What I am absolutely certain of is that she will think long and hard before illegally sharing content again. Or she’ll get better at hiding it when she does. The odds are slightly in her favor, and let’s hope that she makes the right choice.
I guess the point of all this is to remind myself that not everyone who appears to be a ‘bad person’ really is, and that, if given the opportunity, most folks will choose to Play Nice. I’m happy that Cheekie did, and that I did, too. Sort of.
I’m also hopeful that others who take part in illegal file sharing will put aside the thrill, the ego, and the feeling of invincibility afforded them by their VPNs and onions to think just a bit about the fact that those of us who produce spanking videos do so because we LOVE spanking, not because we’re getting filthy rich in the process. And please be considerate of the literal blood, sweat, and tears which the spankees endure every time, for your enjoyment. I don’t wish bad things on you, but I do hope for your consideration.
– Dana
Oh – I should also mention that miss Cheekie and I are now going to be friends – she’s going to be a Good Girl from here on out, and I’m going to help her start a blogsite where she can share her love of all things spanking without getting herself into more trouble.
Here’s ‘Cheekie Pays Her Dues’ :
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Very nice – thanks for posting. What she did was wrong but the intimacy of the hard handspanking on bare bottom was perfect atonement.
I procrastinated on my taxes and sloppily forgot to take out our trash last night. That’s not enough to pop that vein up I hope… :)
BT,
I’m in agreement; Cheekie has atoned herself as far as I’m concerned. She’s proved that being Nice is still the best way to be.
Well done Dana, a fantastic video and I already notice that some consider it all as a big joke… Some will never understand the harm they do sharing our stuff… You said it all what we have all said over here in the UK. Cheekie didn’t do it so much for profit… but there are those that just do that on a daily basis. I will always make it as unprofitable and annoying for them to share my stuff on an open forum as possible. Who cares if they have their private areas, VIP shit or other such hidden places across the internet… we know that, have always known that, and we pretty much accept this shitty behaviour but it’s when I see it go public, one after another… that’s what makes my blood boil. Demotivates what i do and is effectively stealing what i am… I have mo other employment, what little incom,e I get currently is from spanking, it is hard, as you know full well! So for those that make our stuff accessible and available for some who might have considered supporting us but won’t when they find a free link it is sickening on the various places we find our stuff.
Anyway, waffling, well done, I will place this on my blog for sure. Hope Sarah and I get to catch up with you at some point, I am in America a lot this year!
Regards
John Osborne – Triple A
John,
Cheekie got in over her head and, I’m hoping, has learned that what she thought was innocent can be very detrimental, especially when done by those who do it for profit or some sort of screwed-up ‘popularity’.
I know…some folks will make derogatory comments no matter what. And that’s okay too, because those aren’t the people we’re trying to please anyway. As I said in the post, I don’t wish them harm, I just wish they’d think for a second about the Actual People on the other end of their actions.
Indeed, I don’t wish anyone harm, in fact most who share our content are genuine spankos… but I just wished they’d think out of the box a little and see the real harm their actions do to us. They think it doesn’t do any harm, if we didn’t at least try to protect our content, God knows where it would be, I can think of a few sites that have suffered massively from this and are struggling right now.
If you’re at BBW, it would be good to meet up with you!
Regards,
John.
About Cheeckie
Thank you Dana Kane for filing this video about others stealing and post content on free websites to share to all, I am a former Spanking model who did videos for Nuwest/Leda, Jennifer Brooks and Pacific Force. Us spanking models don’t get paid lot’s and lot’s of money at all. I usually got paid or was given free videos exchange for my work.
I am glad you taught Ms. Cheekie a good lesson to her backside on how to act and be professional to become a spanking model. When I did spanking videos,I got my start because of Jennifer Brooks and the late Janet Beckwith who I have great respect for. I stared in videos under the name Mark Snow.
it’s not fun when others steal other people’s content from websites and then repost them some where else. It’s wrong and horrible. But I am thankful you taught her a good lesson. If it was me I would used all four implement’s on Cheekie backside. But I believe you did a good thing here. Thank you again from a former spanking Model Mark Snow/ Chris San Diego,
Mark,
Thanks for stopping in to comment, and I’m happy to report that Cheekie and I spent a nice, long time talking about just how much spanking performers make (and how much we producers profit) – and she was shocked.
While I still believe that Cheekie wants to be a spanking model, I think she’s now aware that it won’t buy her any Fendi bags…ha!
Dana,
Will be Cheekie be doing any videos for your company any time soon and do think she can handle a very hard spanking?
Cheekie and I have discussed future videos, and I’m sure that, with the right incentive, she can take a pretty decent spanking…although I’m skeptical whether she’d hold still for it.
While I do love a good free video… How in any sense of the words did this punishment fit the crime??? Me thinks you must have handed out much more severe penalties for much less felonious indiscretions.
~olivia
Olivia,
Every person, their situation, and their punishment, is different. I saw no reason to beat Cheekie within an inch of her life, when what I REALLY wanted from her was eye contact, a sincere apology, and a promise to change her behavior.
It’s also important to remember that this wasn’t about entertaining the viewer.
Dana,
You know I will post this all over twitter for you.The punishment did fit the crime. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to look the person you wronged in the eye and admit that what you did was wrong. You were absolutely correct. You were being benevolent because it could have been much worse. Being a aspiring spanking model myself I do feel that she learned her lesson. I will be helping you keep a ever watchful eye.
Robin,
Cheekie is knowledgeable enough that, if she wanted, she could continue to share content and none of us would ever know. That’s why trust is important here, and just about everywhere else.
My shoot experiences to date have been earning $300-$400 per shoot, and or a combination of free membership access and future free sessions in lieu of payment from various producers.
Alexis,
The truth is that most videos are shot TFP, which means that exactly nobody gets paid – until and unless the video sells. A lot. Repeatedly. For a long time.
Wow, Dana, that was one heck of a hand spanking. I honestly hope Cheeky learned her lesson. You show that you are an honorable and classy lady by giving Cheeky an opportunity to redeem herself with you. You set a great example for other content producers, but you also gave warning to others who share your content without your expressed permission. Kudos, to you, ma’am.
And Cheeky, good for you for owning up to what you did. Kudos to you too.
Thanks Anna, but I have NO idea what you’re talking about. My hand? Hard? Never! (ha)
Dana, you so totally Rock!! I sure love your sense of humor, ma’am. Your hand is heavy on My bottom, and you showed me you weren’t using your whole hand. I will have to find out how your whole hand feels next time. Yes, ma’am, there will be a next time…
It’s no wonder why others cannot stay away. I know I cannot.
Dana, I love you to bits. And because of that, I have to admit I’ve got blood in my eye over this one.
You are a very kind and forgiving person. I would not have been so kind. Spanking her on video brought her attention and her own little showcase. Seems more like a reward than a punishment. Anyone can act contrite on camera if they need to.
But… I hope your instincts are right and mine are wrong. Guess time will tell.
Erica,
As I told Cheekie, I really believe that if we stop believing in the ability of others to redeem themselves, then there’s nothing else for us.
It cost her quite a lot of money to travel here, and she put herself on the line by supplying me with all her pertinent personal information. I’m betting that there’s a lesson learned here, maybe for us both, and time will definitely tell.
I am in total agreement I know many Professional’s who work very hard to make a living and are not getting rich doing it,
Cheeky earned herself a Spanking for her behavior but I must say she is very lucky you were so personal about dealing with her punishment!
You could have been much more sever but you chose to handle it calmly and some what harshly
I say some what because I know you could have taken it to a much harsher level but did not.
You showed Miss Cheeky a lot of respect and kindness
I have watched your clips on how you deal with bottom’s who have irritated you and they all say the same thing about you.
You are a Loving caring Lady who can handle misbehavior and can bring tears to the eyes of those who do.
Because you deal with it on a personal level!
Thank You for this Clip it says you care and love those you use discipline to correct!
I hope She really did learn her lesson!
John,
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I think that it’s best we all remember that we’re none of us perfect, and that allowing others to be fallible is as human as we can ask anyone to be.
This video makes me happy that i have absolutely no idea how to file share, nor do I have any interest in doing so :-) I have paid for every song in my iTunes library. I last copied a cassette in the 80’s and I felt like I was stealing or trying to get something for nothing. Sharing without prior consent is very plainly stealing, I am not a perfect boy by any stretch of the imagination but I like to take pride in that I try to live with in my own personal standard of integrity. Besides there is enough shit I can get myself in trouble over so why add breaking the law or stealing into the mix, right :-)
I am not throwing this out as a challenge or questioning your ability or questioning what cheeky was feeling during the spanking but I was a little jealous as I have yet to meet a woman (or man) who can spank me hard enough with their hand. It’s not really about the pain as much as it is about taking control and I just happen to respond to spanking/pain.
Cool video.
AJ,
I never need a challenge. My hand’s awfully hard, but no match against a bottom that’s used to hard wood paddling on a regular basis. If you’re what I consider a ‘regular’ spanko and not a heavy player, then it’s likely I could make you at least think twice.
Dana,
I, too, commend you on your somewhat diplomatic way of handling this situation. You are truly a unique person for allowing Cheeky to make amends by making an example of her while also teaching her a valuable lesson. Sometimes people are ignorant to the ways their actions affect others, and sometimes all it takes is a little knowledge and awareness to help them realize that what they are doing is unacceptable and actually damaging. The Internet world can be a deceptive place. I obviously don’t steal videos, never have and never will – but as a spanking model, even I did not fully understand the scope of this until you had that discussion with Cheeky on camera. I believe that you’ve given a lot of people a reason to pause before they do something potentially damaging to a community that works very hard to sustain itself as an industry that unfortunately has to operate under the constant threat of the piracy risk. I’m glad to see that you are on top of it and that you’ve utilized your disciplinarian skills to demonstrate how detrimental this is. And I give credit to Cheeky for owning her actions and putting herself out there in good faith. Luckily for her, it was you that extended yourself to deal with a situation that could have landed her in the really bad kind of trouble. I expect that your efforts will not be in vain. Following your lead, I’ll extend the same courtesy to Cheeky by giving her the benefit of the doubt. Also, after seeing her thrash about like a fish out of water, I feel slightly less moronic about jumping off of your lap during that double-cheeked hand spanking! Lots of love!
Angel
Angel,
I think that we all have our fingers crossed for Cheekie, which should serve as even MORE motivation to behave. Sometimes, just having the support of a bunch of other cool folks is enough to make us behave differently. ox
Hello Dana.
It’s odd. I am of two minds about Cheekie and her punishment. On the one hand she is cute. She reminds me of a friend of mine who shot a video with me and my wife. She is very spankable with all of her jumping around, and that adorable bottom of hers.
Now on the other hand, after we had watched her punishment, both my wife and myself were concerned that Cheekie was not taking this seriously at all. Granted people are prone to nervous laughter, but she was going on a bit much with it. Except a couple of time when I heard her tone change and she almost sounded as if she were about to cry.
Baring that, it did look as if Cheekie was blowing this punishment off. Which is probably the reason why some may feel that more than you hand should have been used with this situation, myself as well.
But no one who watched this video was in that room with you two. Many of us know just how powerful a hand spanking can be. And despite the thought of using multiple implements for this, that more than likely would have done more harm than good. Justice is far better than revenge.
So, in the end, we all will have to wait and see how Cheekie turns out under your attention, Dana. Like you, I do support giving people second chances. I can only hope that she neither disappoints you or us.
Good Luck!
Loki
Loki,
I think that Cheekie will do well, and the more of us she gets to know the better.
You’re right – that hand spanking was just the correct thing for the situation..but there were certainly paddle whacks (hard ones) off-camera.
You know it is sad that there is no more Spanking Court. Cheekie’s case would have been perfect for it! Incidentally, would you still like to have the video of Cheekie’s spanking posted on as many sites as possible? If so, I do know of a couple of ‘tube’ sites that the video would be perfect to air at.
Loki,
I’m working on the tube sites, negotiating with moderators re: watermarks.
Excellent point re:Spanking Court. Damn, I miss those days!
Thanks to the ones who understand that I am human and I made a mistake.
I won’t lie, when I got the email that Mrs. Kane wanted to meet with me, I seriously thought She’s going to hurt me SO BAD, When she said I was in for a hand spanking I was a bit shocked and slightly disappointed because I thought I deserved so much more because of the behavior problem at hand, but it really taught me that, WORDS mean more than ANYTHING, her scolding was far worse than her hand spanking and I learned that she really is a LADY because, she could have used EVERYTHING SHE OWNED! but she showed poise and grace but most of all MERCY and that’s a BIG deal to me, and I am thankful that it was a personal spanking she treated me like the human being I am and not like a piece of spanko meat.
I can’t change anyone’s mind about me, but I ask that you give me a chance, you won’t be sorry. :-D
Thanks Again Mrs. Kane!
you won’t be sorry either!!
~*XO*~
~Cheekie~