Gal Pals

Gal Pals 5.00/5 (100.00%) 4 votes


I spank a lotta gals.

A lot, a lot.

I don’t know why this still surprises me, but it does. Why would I, of all people, have different expectations of female spankos than males? This just goes to show that the gender mores to which we’re accustomed are hard to shrug off, even when we’re vigilant. But I’m digressing already..

Most of the women with whom I play don’t even let men spank them; it’s a line drawn for them, that even the man in their romantic life not be given dominion over their bodies. It’s a you’re-not-the-boss-of-me thing..I get it. If they’re single, they’re just not willing to compromise that kind of intimacy with a man to whom they’re not emotionally attached. It’s easier for them to relate intimately (not sexually) with another woman…I get that, too.

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Tough gals

There’s something intensely personal about a woman giving the gift of physical submission to another person that’s quite different than men – we’ve been known throughout history as ‘the weaker sex’, and it wasn’t a woman who coined that phrase, I guarantee. So for some gals, it’s just much simpler to get what they need in that respect from another female – someone who poses no threat of romantic or sexual energy. It’s one less thing to try and figure out, and Today’s Woman leads a pretty damned complicated life as it is.

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93% of the time.

Many times, there’s a maternal quality to the interaction between  me and my female playmates. This has nothing to do with age, or ageplay necessarily, but everything to do with creating and experiencing a loving, nurturing, yet structured environment, where they can let down their guard, release anxiety and guilt, and get in touch with the parts of themselves that they shelter from most of the world – the soft parts. (Get your minds out of the gutter – I’m talking about emotional soft parts…sheesh.)

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Hug it out.

The truth is, I deal much more gently in many ways with women than men, in respect to disciplinary authority. For all our toughness, we’re still built mostly of large parts of estrogen and ever-changing serotonin levels. We’re like emotional gremlins – benign until activated – and should be handled with care.

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The point of it all? I used to be one of those ‘I don’t like other women’ women. That’s different now, and it’s because of all the real, genuine connections I’ve made amongst my spanko girlfriends.

I love you all, you buncha weirdos!

-  Dana

So Kate Upton spanked this guy too hard…

So Kate Upton spanked this guy too hard… 5.00/5 (100.00%) 2 votes



Kate Upton?

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Gave some guy a spanking? And left THIS on his backside?

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That’s right, friends. Reportedly, Miss Upton got a bit ‘carried away’ while filming a scene for an upcoming movie – a scene in which she spanks her male counterpart. This guy (otherwise known as the Luckiest Boy in the Wide World):

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He even says that, when he requested that she take it easy on him, the director laughed and encouraged her to continue..which she gleefully did. 

I knew I liked that girl…

-  Dana

The whole article is HERE. Sunday Update: 4/13 Sunday Update: 4/13 5.00/5 (100.00%) 3 votes


Spanking Mister Weenie

Bonus! Cheekie Pays Her Dues

Virtual Spanking: Your Pissed Off Wife
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When all else fails, do a question thingy. (Unrelated to Spanking)

When all else fails, do a question thingy. (Unrelated to Spanking) 4.80/5 (96.00%) 5 votes



There are times when it’s just nearly impossible for a blogger to be original, funny, campy, and/or creative. For those times, the internet gods created these question thingys.

This is one of those times, and those of you who are old enough to remember Myspace may find yourselves waxing sentimental about the Old Days when all 6600 people in your friend list did the same damn thingy on the same damn day.

-  Dana



Question Thingy (massively edited down from 100 questions, most of them even more inane than the ones I’ve chosen to include below):


Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?
Closed. If they’re not closed, the cats will turn it into a party room.

Do you take the shampoos and conditioner bottles from hotel?
Yep. I put them in a box and when the box is full, I take them to the Las Vegas Rescue Mission.

Have you ever stolen a street sign before?
I hate that I have to answer ‘yes’ to such a random and bizarre question. Yes. Yes, I have.

What is your biggest pet peeve?
Just one? Jeez..umm..I guess it’d have to be emoticons/webspeak.


Do you ever count your steps when you walk?

Do you still watch cartoons?
I still try to catch episodes of South Park now and then, but I’m less impressed with it than I was a decade ago

What do you drink with dinner?
I’m from the South. We’re supposed to drink sweet iced tea with everything; it’s in the Book of Redneck Etiquette.
What do you dip a chicken nugget in?

If you try to feed me any kind of nugget I will slap you hard.

What is your favorite food?
This one’s easy. My honey makes this stuff called Huli Huli Chicken, which is quite possibly the tastiest thing I’ve ever eaten, ever. This may have something to do with the fact that I don’t have to prepare it, but still. It rocks.


What movies could you watch over and over and still love?
The Birdcage. Hank Azaria’s character is one of the most hilarious performances ever.

50 First Dates. I love Adam Sandler and Drew Barrymore together; it’s impossible not to smile.

Chocolat. This may be the only movie in which I can honestly say that I understand the world’s women’s fascination with Johnny Depp (And Juliette Binoche? Ohmy.)

Can you change the oil on a car?
I could change the oil on my ’01 Saturn. There’s no WAY I could do it on my current car. I don’t even know where the battery is..someplace in the trunk, I think.
Are you lazy?
Who has time to be lazy?
When you were a kid, what did you dress up as for Halloween?
My grandmother said it was tacky to go door to door, begging for candy.
Which are better legos or lincoln logs?
I cannot tell you how much I love Lincoln Logs.
Afraid of heights?

Sing in the car?

Ever used a gun?

Do you believe in ghosts?

First concert?
I went to a George Strait concert with a boy from my high school. His mom dropped us off. It was the first time I was allowed to go to a Whole Other City without a legal guardian, I think.
Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?
No, no, and no.
Who would you like to see in concert?
I am fascinated by Journey’s current lead singer, Arnel Pineda.

Can you knit or crochet?
I can crochet like a skein-wielding demon.


Cheekie Pays Her Dues (REAL punishment for a REAL offense) – Free Video

Cheekie Pays Her Dues (REAL punishment for a REAL offense) – Free Video 5.00/5 (100.00%) 11 votes



I want to give you a short background on this video:

It’s real. Cheekie is real. The story we tell is real, and so is the trouble she could be in right now, had I not given her the opportunity to redeem herself and she not taken it.

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Cheekie agreed to receive her punishment on video, and to admit to her wrongdoing. Not everyone would be as brave (or silly?), but I’m giving her credit for taking responsibility..and a very hard spanking.

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The two of us had a VERY long talk, and I’ve edited it down to what I hope is a manageable size without taking out any of the spanking or pertinent details (it’s still long, at nearly 18minutes). She had some very misinformed ideas about the spanking video business – and about the business of content sharing, and thoughtlessly went about her illegal activities for quite some time before I caught her in the act. 

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I gave Cheekie no other option to deal with this situation – I told her that the ONLY way to redeem herself with me was to put her butt on a plane to Las Vegas and accept whatever I had to offer. I didn’t threaten her with legal action or ‘outing’, as she’d by then figured out for herself how easily she could’ve ended up in a much worse situation. She immediately agreed (somewhat to my surprise, until I realized that this sweet girl is still too young and inexperienced to realize exactly the gravity of the situation), and by the time we met, we’d agreed that if she was willing to accept the punishment (and lots and lots of verbal shaming from me, of course), that I’d be willing to forgive her past actions. 

I’m still not certain whether Cheekie has learned the FULL lesson here, which is – essentially – that rote ‘do unto others’ thing that we’ve always known to be the best policy. What I am absolutely certain of is that she will think long and hard before illegally sharing content again. Or she’ll get better at hiding it when she does. The odds are slightly in her favor, and let’s hope that she makes the right choice.

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I guess the point of all this is to remind myself that not everyone who appears to be a ‘bad person’ really is, and that, if given the opportunity, most folks will choose to Play Nice. I’m happy that Cheekie did, and that I did, too. Sort of.

I’m also hopeful that others who take part in illegal file sharing will put aside the thrill, the ego, and the feeling of invincibility afforded them by their VPNs and onions to think just a bit about the fact that those of us who produce spanking videos do so because we LOVE spanking, not because we’re getting filthy rich in the process. And please be considerate of the literal blood, sweat, and tears which the spankees endure every time, for your enjoyment. I don’t wish bad things on you, but I do hope for your consideration.

- Dana

Oh – I should also mention that miss Cheekie and I are now going to be friends – she’s going to be a Good Girl from here on out, and I’m going to help her start a blogsite where she can share her love of all things spanking without getting herself into more trouble.


Here’s ‘Cheekie Pays Her Dues’ :

PS. I am not only allowing, not just welcoming, but ENCOURAGING other bloggers, producers, performers, and spankos in general to share this video (and the associated story and stills) Far and Wide – leaving the copyright info intact, naturally. This is one video that won’t need to be pirated, and it’s about time that Cheekie has to step from behind the anonymity of her computer.~

‘You’re in Good Hands’ survey results

‘You’re in Good Hands’ survey results 5.00/5 (100.00%) 6 votes



As promised, below you’ll find some preliminary results (161 responders thus far) from the You’re in Good Hands survey. Most of us find demographics interesting, and I think you’ll enjoy these.

-  Dana


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Who Spanks?

Who Spanks? 4.60/5 (92.00%) 5 votes


One thing I hear repeatedly goes something like this, “I wish that there was someone local…”.

In a continuing effort to help spankos in all areas find someone compatible with whom to play, I’m again requesting that my readers, friends, and playmates leave recommendations for other disciplinarians.

There’s a list near the bottom of the right-hand sidebar here, which lists several ladies offering disciplinary sessions in and around the U.S., but there is always room for more. Please take a look at the current listings and, if you’re aware of someone I’ve missed, please leave the name and link to a website in the comments area below. I’ll add anyone verifiable, with the disclaimer that I’m not necessarily associated with or promoting anyone in particular, simply trying to help making connections easier. Also, if you’re aware of any dead links or inactive ladies on the list, please do let me know and I’ll update with current information.

Thanks for all your input here, as always,

- Dana Sunday Video Update: 4/6 Sunday Video Update: 4/6 5.00/5 (100.00%) 5 votes


The Very Bad Boy’s Pain Party

Alexis Lost Bet

POV: Neighbor Boy in My Bed

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Give til it Hurts Raffle #2 : 1 Year Membership WINNER!

Give til it Hurts Raffle #2 : 1 Year Membership WINNER! 5.00/5 (100.00%) 5 votes



We’ve had another wildly successful fundraising event in the Give Til it Hurts Raffle #2, raising $845 for animal charities!

And since it’s so much fun to give things away (as our generous donors have again proven), here’s the video showing who’s won the 1 year membership to, and the runner up winner of a 30 day membership:



Congratulations to the winners, and thanks to everyone who participated. Below, all donor pseudonyms and their contributions:


Dana’s World Record Holder  -  $50

Lab Saver  -  $25

Naughty Tom  -  $25

Arapahoe  -  $25

GreenEyes  -  $300

Rigel  -  $25

Kalman  -  $100

Arrogant Brat  -  $50

NJSpank  -  $150

Oldog  -  $25

Randy Lee  -  $20

Danielle  -  $50


And here’s the payoff – all the wonderful animal heroes you’ve helped by participating, and, most importantly, the sweet little animals who’ve benefitted so much from your generosity:


City Critters  -  $100

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City Critters rescues, rehabilitates, and re-homes cats and dogs in and around New York City. The city’s animal control, collectively called NYC ACC, is one of the country’s most notorious kill-mills, especially cats and pit bull breed dogs. City Critters saved the lives of over 200 cats (and a number of dogs) in 2013, providing everything from medical care, transportation, and shelter rescue, to TNR funding for local groups. Good people working hard in the most populace place in the country.


Becky’s Hope  –  $50

We’re revisiting Becky’s Hope, a Texas-based rescue for abused and neglected horses. Becky’s Hope is a small, self-funded horse sanctuary that takes on animals who, without them, wouldn’t have much hope at all. They’re always in need of hay for these big sweeties, so we’ll likely make sure that a little goes to them every time we fundraise.


Noah’s Ark Rescue  –  $200

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Dogs who are sick, injured, and abused rarely stand a chance for the expensive medical care they require. And then there’s Noah’s Ark…These folks work tirelessly to provide life-saving medical care to dogs who’d otherwise have no chance at life. Not only does Noah’s Ark provide the funds, but they ferry the dogs to and from multi-state specialists, network to rehome them, and need donations to continue this work more than you can imagine. There isn’t a better definition of selfless than what these folks are doing, every day.


C5 (Community Cat Coalition of Clark County) -  $100

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The C5 kitty cam – one feral colony’s minder has set up a 24/7 stream of her wards.

C5 is an all-volunteer group in Clark County, Nevada, working to save, spay, and care for the more than 200thousand feral cats in and around Las Vegas. They’re one of my chosen local charities and doing great and important work for the kitties here.


Angel City Pit Bulls  –  $145

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Almost all cities are pitbull-unfriendly nowadays, although for decades they were considered one of the best, smartest, and most gentle breeds for children (do your homework). Los Angeles is an especially tough place to be a pitbull – or any dog even remotely resembling one – and Angel City does their damndest to save them. Pulling ‘bully’ breeds directly from local L.A. shelters, fostering and rehoming them, and advocating for the breed and public common sense when it comes to these misunderstood and maligned sweeties. I LOVE bullys, and have owned three…every single one of them sweeter and more cuddly than the next.


Crash’s Landing  -  $250

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260 cats. Crash’s Landing is a nokill cat rescue in Grand Rapids, Michigan, focused specifically on saving, rehabilitating, and giving homes to at-risk stray cats – and they home 260 of the little furballs. With a monthly cost of nearly 15thousand dollars, caring for sick, injured, and terminally ill cats is an expensive but oh-so-terribly loving endeavor. The people who staff and fund places like Crash’s Landing deserve all the help we can give them.

 Please take a few minutes to take a look at all these great groups yourself, and maybe even click on that ‘Donate’ button.


**Disclaimer: By sharing names of organizations in receipt of funds donated, neither I nor Dana Kane Films assumes or implies association with any of the above named groups. (This simply because not everyone wants to be publicly associated with someone who does naughty things during daylight hours, and we understand that completely.)

**In the name of clarity, documentation of all monies distributed is available upon request.

**As payment processors charge a hefty percentage of every transaction (yes, ridiculously, even for charitable donations), I’ve decided to start mailing in donations by check rather than allowing Paypal to hedge our hard-earned five percent. Take THAT.


 It’s impossible to say often enough how grateful I am for our donor’s participation in the Give Til it Hurts fundraisers – it’s endlessly heartwarming and reassuring to be reminded of all the Really Wonderful People with whom I share this planet. You’re all, quite pointedly, freakin’ awesome.

I’ll be back in summer with another fun and decidedly spanko way to help the critters while participating in something that may net you something relatively exclusive..

-  Dana

New FREE F/F spanking video : Tips for Tops ‘Have Mercy’

New FREE F/F spanking video : Tips for Tops ‘Have Mercy’ 5.00/5 (100.00%) 5 votes


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Aftermath of Spanking

Sometimes my friends at Cane-iac make implements which are just downright heinous, and this is one of those times. The Gator Skin Rubber Loop Strap I’m using in this video is larger than my playmate’s bottom, and tougher too! After just a few swats with this really fun yet definitely-for-the-adventurous strap, my sassy friend decided that she’d had enough…but I still had something to handle. And so I left the camera running, just for fun.

Enjoy!    -  Dana