Readers,
Warning: This may get a bit silly.
Since none of us could be truthful in saying that our minds are ever blank when we’re spanking (or being spanked), I’d like to know what you’re thinking about during.
Our minds wander, it’s true. And it’s also completely natural that sometimes we’re doing one thing while thinking of another, wholly unrelated, thing. With that understood, where do you wander during play? Are you thinking two steps ahead of your playmate, or are you composing your shopping list, or is there that song that just won’t stop playing inside your head?
Most of the time, I am wrapped up in the feel, sound, and all-round sensory experience of the spanking, but occasionally, well, something happens…
I can’t control it, and have no idea when or where it will present itself…
but once in a while, as I am happily smacking away at some naughty boy or girl across my lap,
one song pops up from the deepest depths of my subconscious.
I cannot help but time my smacks to the insistent beat of the music running through my hands.
It’s a classic, and I know you all know it.
So sing (or spank) along with me, now…
Conversations with Spankos: What goes on in your head?
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My favorite that goes through my head is I’ve been working on the rail road or the wheels on the bus. I have been known to sing to the bottom while I am paddling also..
Last week I asked a girl to pick 2 numbers which was 2 and 7 so it was 2 diffrent paddles hitting the same spot 7 times. about half way through I started singing. then i asked her what the count was and guess what.. she forgot. humm
Normally whilst my Mistress is punishing me I am focused on the sensations and making sure that I count or say thank you if required. If she is using one of the implements I dislike I sometimes work out the percentage of strokes left to distract me, for instance if I have just received the 18th stroke of 30 I am 60% of the way through that part of my punishment. However my mind can wander in the breaks between each part of a session especially if I am tied down or in the corner. At that point I may start singing a song in my head. Usually it is either the ska standard “Night boat to Cairo” or The Buzzcocks “Ever fallen in love?”. I have absolutely no idea why it is those songs in particular.
I would have thought your facorite song would have been by: The Tramps,
“Dana’s Inferno” OOOPS! that’s “Disco Inferno” my mistake. =-)
When I am being spanked, I …..oh wait….I’ve never been spanked. But now I’m sure if it does happen, I’ll be thinking…..
“You’re stayin alive, stayin alive.
Feel the city breakin and everybody shakin,
And were stayin alive, stayin alive.
Ah, ha, ha, ha, stayin alive, stayin alive.”
I LOVE that song. It’s fun to sing for karaoke with a group whether we’re buzzed or sober. :)
When I’m getting spanked, I have so much fun with my tops that I alternate between laughing, saying “OWWWW F@!!” and thinking of my next smart comment.
I enjoy “These Boots Are Meant for Walking” and “Heartache Tonight” by the Eagles. I am too busy attempting to take the pain and enjoying it at the same time, to ever actually sing them to myself.
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LOL! I’ll never think of that song the same way again.
In the initial stages of a spanking, before I get into my “zone,” my mind does flit about. If I have music playing in the background, I’ve been known to unconsciously hum along with the tune. This tends to get a reaction along the lines of “Am I boring you??” Probably in my best interest to leave the music off.
Well, I’m sure I didnt hear “Stayin Alive”, but I think it was what you posted earlier that I heard you singing while you whooped me!! What was it… “Fat Bottomed Girls”?? hahaa.. As for me, being the first whoopin I can recollect, I was just wondering when it was going to start hurting. ;oP
See, I really am a good girl!!!
xoxoxo
I’ve been caned 4 times, and each of the 4 experiences turned into very different experiences, psychologically speaking. It happened by accident but canings #2, 3 and 4 developped into situations mostly or partly negotiated, during the caning, re severity, length and breaks. So, my thoughts have been mostly of whether I am able to ask for and receive a break or some help without being a riduculous fool, who has just asked to be caned! (Though, caning 2 was pretty passionate . . . I was hoarse afterwards from having been screaming for an hour. . .)
3 of my canings had “spanking” mixed in . . . and I spent some time thinking about the different texture and experience of the various implements. I remember that thinking being hit with a crop was such a nice contrast with the canes and the naughty stick . . . and was like not being hit at all . . . I experienced that thin marshmallow sticks could function like quite bad canes (cost $1 for 4 at the grocery store) when used to hit (several at a time) and could be sensually stimulating when drawn . . . and I realized that my dollar spent on the marshmallow sticks was a great buy, in both ways.
In a few months or years, we will know what I am thinking during canings which don’t have much breaks . . . or in which we have agreed or I know that asking for breaks or lighter stuff won’t work.
As a male spankee sometimes absolutely nothing goes through my mind. It is a total mental rest..
Severity of the spanking is not a factor.
Most often I am having a wonderful funny conversation with the spanker. Again the severity of the spanking is not a factor.
Sometimes I am already longing for and thinking about the next spanking!
Ms. Dana…
Don’t you ever ask any easy questions? :p Since there are six different scenarios I can find myself in [switch x discipline, mainenance, erotic], there are at least six different answers to this question. If I’m bottoming, they are:
Discipline: OUCH! That hurts! Will it end sooner, if I’m loud or cry. If I’m stoic, will she feel she must ocntinue until she elicits a response?
Maintenance: She cares about me.
Erotic: Don’t stop! Am I showing her how much I’m, enjoying this, how hot it’s making me.
If I’m topping:
Discipline: I know this hurts, but she broke a rule and she knows she deserves it.
Maintenance: I know she knows I care; boy is her ass pretty when it’s all red and striped.
Erotic: Is it time to check to see how wet she is? I love the way she “reaches” for each stroke. Is the next stroke the one that will push her over?
You may pick any of these six settings if you can guess who wrote this.
umm my mind does wonder so does my eyes, looking at what is going on around me, felling the sting of the impliments, being used. pushing for one more. umm some macking animal noises. pig, or whatever animal Mistress may want me to make for her. amusement. if a song pops in my mind or i feel Mistress is going for a rythym try to guess the song she is playing.
Hmmm, honestly the only thing going on is the competition between the screaming that is going on in my head and the screaming that is coining out of my mouth which is really a lot of begging, pleading, whining, letting her know how much it hurts and that I don’t like it, and promise making. Inside my head all I am wondering about is when it is going to stop and why is she doing this to me.
As a bottom I have experienced a shift in needs and with this particular Top, i am not digging the long drawn out, fun or silly spankings. These are the down and dirty getter dun kind a spankings. Maybe 10 or so minutes. I usually drop for the first time after a few swats with the paddle or spoon.
It is a very punitive spanking and there is an emotional separation while it is happening, but that is were i am right now and she and her girlfriend (aka Ma’am’s or the people to whom I am willing to submit.) have really helped me met this need. Plus I think they are enjoying themselves, they are just good at looking serious.