New Site Suggestion

Readers,I haven’t previously written reviews or suggestions of premium video-based spanking sites – and not because there isn’t a wealth of excellent content out there. It seems to me that those of us who are interested in purchasing spanking video content probably know full-well where and how to do so, so there’s never really seemed […]

London, U.K., you say?

Indeed, I do.  March 26-31.I am eagerly anticipating my first trip to the U.K. London holds many fascinations for me – the Houses of Parliament, Buckingham Palace, Big Ben, The London eye (dare I?), dozens of glorious museums, and quite literally tons of fish and chips. I fully intend to immerse myself in tourism…minus the coordinated separates […]

The ‘Other Stuff’ Survey

Readers,NOTE that the request for fantasy scenarios in the below survey is F/F (that’s FEMALE/FEMALE, gentlemen). Please refrain from any further referencing of your genitals – or anyone else’s, for that matter – and please, for godssakes, behave yourselves.– Dana <p>&amp;amp;amp;lt;p&amp;amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;lt;p&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;gt;Loading…&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;lt;/p&amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;amp;lt;/p&amp;amp;amp;gt;</p> Visit my premium video, DVD, and products website at

Social Sites for Spankos

For you social spanko-types, a listing of places where you can meet, chat, and inform yourself online:FetlifeWhile Fetlife caters to the entire kink/fetish/poly/porn community, there are many groups, events, and members with strictly spanking interests. Fetlife is a huge, active, free site, with available premium memberships with access to video.Spanko.netThis is a site made up […]

A Song for the Holidays, by Dana Kane

I laid them all out on the table, all twelve of them, just before he arrived; I smoothed the quilt on the bed, and closed the window blinds tight. It was Christmas in New York City, but I had no time to stare out the window at the bustle of downtown shoppers below. Out came the wrist and […]

What are we looking for?

The Google search box is still the single most powerful tool on the internet.I can search for things so specific that – in most cases – I can find exactly what I’m looking for within the first ten or so listings. It’s terribly convenient, and keeps us from having to muck about in a bunch […]

Spanking PSA: Safety First. And Second. And Third.

Readers, It is impossible to say too much about safety, so.. Some of my playmates are twenty-plus year players, and some have trusted me with their first ever adult spankings. I am fortunate to play often, and with an amazingly diverse group of wonderful people. The one thing which all of my lovely spanking partners share is […]

Thanks for the Memories

I would like to take a few minutes to acknowledge my wonderful playmates – and some of the great memories you’ve given me..You’ve made me laugh – from ‘Tickle This’ to Flash Gordon to photos of your pets, and ‘it’s the rubber loop for you’. You’ve wiggled, squirmed, sassed and back-talked…all to my great joy.You’ve impressed […]

Upcoming Travel

Upcoming travel, December 2011 through March 2012. DECEMBER 2011:   7-8     Ft. Lauderdale  9-10     Tampa 12-13     Richmond13-14    Washington D.C.14-15    PhiladelphiaJANUARY 2012   9-10    Sacramento 10-11    San Francisco 11-13   Los Angeles 17-18    Phoenix 18-19    Houston 19-20    Nashville 24-25    Atlanta 25-26    Charlotte 26-27    MemphisFEBRUARY 2012:  6-7     San Antonio  7-8   […]

‘Dear Friends’ from The Wonderful Wife

Readers, The Very Bad Boy and his Wonderful Wife have become great friends and playmates, and I am always extremely grateful to have their happy permission to share some of our exploits.  At our last meeting, I asked The Wonderful Wife to think about composing some thoughts on her role as HoH in their Female […]

New Contest: ‘I Broke My New Year’s Resolution’

Readers,The statistics on New Year’s Resolutions are likely not scientific…but they are interesting.The most common Resolutions annually are: 1. Get fit / Lose weight 2. Spend more time with family and friends 3. Quit smoking 4. Improve love relationships 5. Improve finances 6. Quit drinking 7. Get a new job 8. Learn a new skill / hobby […]

Conversations with Spankos: Chapter Four

Chapter Four:  Couples Therapy I receive a fair amount of communication from couples. Usually, they are already engaged in some sort of spanking play, and some are living DD or FLDD relationships. A few are interested in learning about spanking from a ‘newbie’ standpoint, and have little to no prior spanking experience but lots of […]